Taking Positive Inventory. In the daily hustle bustle of motherhood, it’s way too easy to get bogged down with the negative, especially when you’re frustrated or resentful toward your partner. To stop this negative banter, you must change your mindset. In this lesson, you work together with your partner to take and share a Positive Inventory of one another’s positive attributes. This simple exercise can go miles to increase each other’s appreciation and increase your attraction to one another.