Making a Love List. As a busy mama, you need love and attention, and dare I say, foreplay, well before you step into the bedroom at night. That’s why, in this lesson, we focus on banding together with your partner to make your own unique Love List. This Love List helps you define how love best manifests in your relationship and how to bring more of it to the table. The list helps you remember and redefine the true and beautiful values that underpin your relationship and shows you ways that you can express your lasting love to your partner.