Talking Dirty is a simple and sexy way to add some excitement into the bedroom, and explore your fantasies through candid verbal play. Not only can it be a highly erotic turn-on, but it’s also a highly effective tool to help you stay present in the moment during sex with your partner (instead of letting your mind drift off to your to-do list!). But, how can you start talking dirty without feeling awkward or getting tongue-tied – especially if you’ve never done it before?
In my recent appearance on TLC’s All About Sex, I talked with the lovely & smart ladies Margaret Cho, Heather McDonald, Marissa Janet Winokur and Dr. Tiffanie Davis Henry – and shared just a few of my top tips for talking dirty with your partner.
Talking dirty isn’t all about being raunchy. Sometimes, it’s simply about expressing your desires, fantasies, and how fabulous the sensations feel in the moment. Or, it could be asking your partner what they’d like you to do… and giving some sexy suggestions in response.
Go on & check out the video here, and share your thoughts with me in the comments below!
Do you use “talking dirty” as part of your bedroom play?